How to Build a Curl-Friendly Routine for Children
- Joy White
- Jun 2
- 3 min read
How to Build a Curl-Friendly Routine for Children
Featuring insights from the book Mastering Curly Hair: Essential Tips for Parents of Children with Curls
As a parent, caring for your child’s curly hair can feel overwhelming—especially if you’ve never had to deal with curls yourself. The good news is that building a curl-friendly routine doesn’t have to be complicated. With consistency, the right products, and a little guidance, your child’s curls can thrive with moisture, definition, and shine.
In my book Mastering Curly Hair: Essential Tips for Parents of Children with Curls, I break down the fundamentals of curl care for all textures. Today, I’m sharing some of those foundational tips so you can start building a healthy routine tailored to your child’s needs.
1. Understand Their Curl Pattern and Porosity
Before choosing products or setting a schedule, it’s important to understand your child’s curl type and hair porosity. These two elements determine how their hair responds to moisture, styling products, and even weather.
Curl Patterns: Ranges from loose waves (Type 2) to tight coils (Type 4).
Porosity: Determines how easily the hair absorbs and retains moisture (low, normal, or high porosity).
Tip: A simple water test can help you determine porosity—drop a clean strand of hair in a glass of water. If it floats, it’s low porosity; if it sinks quickly, it’s high porosity.
2. Use a Sulfate-Free, Moisturizing Shampoo
Children with curls don’t need to shampoo daily. In fact, over-washing can strip natural oils and cause frizz or dryness. Opt for a gentle, sulfate-free cleanser once a week or as needed, focusing on the scalp to remove build-up without disrupting the curl pattern.
From the Book: “A clean scalp is the foundation of healthy curls, but cleansing should never compromise moisture.”
3. Deep Conditioning is Non-Negotiable
Curly hair thrives on hydration. After every wash, follow with a rich, silicone-free conditioner. Use a wide-tooth comb or your fingers to gently detangle hair from the ends upward while the conditioner is still in.
For tighter curls or high porosity hair, incorporate a deep conditioning treatment every 1–2 weeks.
4. Incorporate the LOC or LCO Method
To seal in moisture, try the LOC (Liquid, Oil, Cream) or LCO (Liquid, Cream, Oil) method, depending on what your child’s hair responds to best. This technique helps keep curls hydrated for longer.
Liquid: Water or a leave-in spray
Oil: Light oils like jojoba or sweet almond
Cream: A curl cream for softness and hold
5. Protect at Night
Nighttime care is just as important as daytime styling. Use a satin bonnet or silk pillowcase to prevent friction, tangling, and moisture loss. For long or thick curls, consider gentle protective styles like braids or twists before bed.
6. Make Styling Simple and Fun
Children should feel good about their hair! Avoid styles that are too tight or involve excessive heat. Use clips, ribbons, or fun accessories to make hair care a positive experience. Teach them early that their curls are beautiful and unique.
From the Book: “The routine you build now teaches your child not just how to care for their curls, but how to embrace them with pride.”
Final Thoughts
Curly hair care is a journey—but one filled with love, learning, and confidence-building moments. By creating a curl-friendly routine that respects your child’s hair texture and lifestyle, you’re setting them up for years of healthy hair and self-esteem.
If you’re looking for a step-by-step guide tailored to your child’s specific hair type, check out my book Mastering Curly Hair: Essential Tips for Parents of Children with Curls. It’s available now in hardcover, paperback, e-book, and instant digital download.
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